Holiday History Recollection #2

Holiday History Recollection #2

Welcome back to my series on Holiday History Recollections, where I’m looking at some of the posts I’ve done over the years on the history of holiday words and traditions!

If you’ve missed the previous ones in this series, you can find them here:

Holiday History Recollection #1

Earlier this week we looked at the stories behind some songs…today let’s look at some tasty holiday treats: eggnog, wassail, fruitcake, and Christmas cookies!

What’s the history of eggnog, and how did it get tied to Christmas?

The beverage itself dates back to the Middle Ages as “posset,” a drink that combined milk, eggs, alcohol, and spices. The egg part of its eventual name, then, is obvious–and it seems that nog was a strong, ale-like drink, though no one’s quite sure on the etymology of that part.  The ingredients, however, were expensive, which meant it was reserved for the wealthy or for times of celebration.

At least until the recipe came to America. Since so many people here had farms, and hence access to cream and eggs and cheap Caribbean rum, eggnog quickly became a favorite beverage for special occasions for everyone. George Washington even shared his favorite recipe (which was quite heavy on the liquor, LOL). The drink became known as eggnog first in America around 1775.

Are you an eggnog fan? Store bought? Homemade? With or without alcohol? (My daughter and I prefer it without, but my husband enjoys the flavors more with a dash of sherry or rum in there.)

We’ve all heard “wassailing” in some of the old Christmas songs. And you probably have an awareness (vague or otherwise) of wassail being a drink. But if you’re anything like me (before I had to research it for a book a few years ago), that’s the extent of your knowledge. 😉

Wassail is from the Old Norse ves heill, which literally means “be healthy.” It was first a salutation and then became a sort of drinking salute among the Danes in England, which then spread to the natives. But 1300, it wasn’t only something one said while lifting a glass, but also what was in the glass–particularly spiced ale that was served on Christmas Eve.

By 1600, it had taken on a bit of a “carousing” meaning, which then extended by 1742 to the practice of going house to house on Christmas Eve, caroling and offering the traditional spiced drink. In Colonial America, wassail was traditionally sold by the poor to the rich–an excuse for them to come in and see how the other half lived, and a way for the rich to give alms to the poor.

So this season, if you lift you glass in salute (whatever might be in it), try saying “Wassail!” and see if anyone understands, LOL.

Ever wonder why this cake has become a holiday staple, despite all the jokes about how much people hate it?

Well, let’s start by stripping off the layers of dislike. Up until they began to be mass-produced, fruitcake was a much-beloved special-occasion treat, made with care and considered a rare treat–and a long-lasting one.

The fruit in fruitcake is dried and candied (soaked in sugar), which means it’s well preserved. The cake itself is often made or stored with alcohol too, which in turn kills bacteria. The result? This cake can last. Up to 25 YEARS is the accepted limit (??) on its shelf-life, and apparently it was often traditional to make a cake one Christmas for eating the next. (Yeah. Sure. Why not.) Cultures around the world have their own varieties of fruitcake, with slight variations but equal presence.

So why did it get tied to Christmas? Well, it was reserved for special occasions for centuries, because the ingredients were costly. Fruit, historically, was not cheap, and neither were sugar and butter. It was a favorite cake for weddings, and of course, that most special day of the year–Christmas! So to give a gift of a fruitcake was thoughtful and would have been well received. People could treasure it, savor it, enjoy a bit here and then a bit there without fear of it spoiling.

Where do you come down on fruitcake? Special treat, or dreaded gift? Have you ever tried a homemade variety, or just the mass-produced kind? (I’d be interested in sampling a homemade one sometime! I’ll have to add it to my eventual-holiday-baking list.)

Ah, Christmas cookies. The baking, the decorating, the consuming…all part of the holiday tradition in many families. And it’s been that way for hundreds of years.

Feasts have been a part of Christmas celebration for untold centuries, and since it was counted as one of the most important days of the Christian year, that meant that all the expensive, special foods were reserved for that day. Which included spices, sugar, butter, and lard. So naturally, when one wanted to make a special treat for Christmas, one brought out these prized ingredients and created a sweet delicacy, often in the form of cookies.

The concept of beautiful decorated cookies originated with the Germans, like many of our other Christmas traditions. Why did they go to such trouble to cut out and decorate their cookies? Because they then used them as decorations on the tree! Cookie cutters became widely (and cheaply) available in the late 1800s, helping this tradition to spread.

So when did we start leaving these sweet treats for Santa? Interestingly, that dates only to 1930s America. In the throes of the Great Depression, most families didn’t have a lot…but they wanted to instill in their children the idea of not only being grateful for what they had and what they received, but of giving too. Cookies were something small and relatively inexpensive but nevertheless precious that families could offer in gratitude. Originally, stockings were filled with such treats for Santa. But over the years, people instead put the cookies and milk out for him and left the stockings empty, to be filled by him.

Holiday History Recollection #1

Holiday History Recollection #1

Over the years I’ve had so much fun looking up not only the etymology of holiday words, but also the history behind some of our common traditions. So now that we’re in Advent, I thought I’d do a series of recollections and look at those posts from years past…because I don’t know about you, but I often need a refresher!

Let’s start out with a look at the stories (true and…not) behind two Christmas songs.

I don’t know about you, but I always enjoy learning about the true story behind things like songs, poems, and stories…much like the one that goes along with the carol “Good King Wenceslas.”

This song is based on the famous life of a Bohemian duke, Wenceslaus I (known in Czech as Svatý Václav). Wenceslaus was renowned for his piety and Christian devotion, and nothing could stop him from doing good…even terrible weather. The event memorialized in the song took place on December 26, the feast day of St. Stephen, a day traditionally reserved for delivering alms to the poor. Wenceslaus was so determined to take these alms to his people that he trekked out in the middle of a blizzard to accomplish it. The song is from the perspective of one of his servants, who thought at one point during the journey that he’d surely die from the cold; the snow was so thick he couldn’t see what was ahead of him. But he made his way by literally following in the footsteps of the duke, which led him unerringly to the door of the people he was helping.

Wenceslaus lived from 907-935 and is famous for his midnight vigils and dedication to protecting and providing for his people, especially the poor. Upon his death, many biographies were written about him, and he was soon named a saint. So great was his popularity that the Holy Roman Emporer Otto even posthumously conferred on him the title of “king.” How fascinating is that? He has been held up for centuries as what a true, noble leader should be.

Wenceslaus has remained a popular figure in both Bohemia and England for centuries, resulting in the poem and Christmas carol we all know, written in 1853 by John Mason Neale. The variation in the spelling of his name has happened in the time since the song was written; it originally had that ‘u’ in there.

Because my kids asked me after I went through the original St. Nicholas story with them, when Rudolph came about, and I had no clue.

As it turns out, our beloved reindeer was an invention of a writer named Robert L. May, who was hired by the Montgomery Ward company to create an original piece of work for their annual children’s coloring book. May devised Rudolph in 1939…to some opposition. The publishers didn’t like the red nose idea. Red noses were associated with drunkards, which certainly wasn’t the image they wanted to portray. But when May had his illustrator friend create a cutesy deer character (they decided actual reindeer weren’t cute enough so went with a more familiar-to-Americans white-tailed variety) with a beaming red nose, the powers-that-be relented–and the story took off to amazing success. The original poem was written in the meter of “The Night Before Christmas.”

The song we all know and love was written a decade later, by the author’s brother-in-law. It remained the all-time best selling album in the country until the 80s!

The stop-motion animation version that I grew up thinking was the only Rudolph story worth watching, LOL, came about in 1964. Though very popular, this movie apparently doesn’t stick very accurately to the original poem. Which now makes me want to look up the original and see what’s been changed!

So there we have it. Our history of Rudolph.

Giving Thanks through the Years

Giving Thanks through the Years

This year, I thought it would be fun post a round-up of all my Thanksgiving posts through the years. Now, sometimes I took the week off and other years my post simply said “Happy Thanksgiving!”, and there have even been a few times when I re-shared a post from previous years so you’re not going to see an entry here for every single year…but then again, other years I posted several different Thanksgiving items, so you’ll get multiples from that year. =) Regardless, it was fun to travel back through the last 13 years on my blog and see the research and expressions of gratitude I’d composed before and compile them into one place.

My musings on Thanksgiving Day, specifically as concerns my writing career in the month before I re-released A Stray Drop of Blood in the version you all know now.

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I reflect on how grateful I am for the history of the Church that we have to stand on.

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Remember When…Thanksgiving Was Optional

Here I explore some of the history of our American holiday.

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Remember When…Thanksgiving Came

Musing on how Thanksgiving became a holiday, a link to a friend’s post, and a bit of my own history with Thanksgiving and why I love it.

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Stolen Blessings

Thanksgiving is a time we focus on blessings…but are we allowing others to participate in the giving?

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Our Five Kernels of Thanksgiving

One of my favorite Thanksgiving posts I’ve done was for Colonial Quills, where I tell the story of the Second Thanksgiving, and why five kernels of corn can mean so much.

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A Thanksgiving Prayer

There were several years in which I shared this same prayer of Gratitude and Thanksgiving from Valley of Vision, a book of Puritan prayers. It’s worth rereading annually!

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The Sacrifice of Thanksgiving

Giving thanks isn’t easy…can we do it even when we’ve lost it all?

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I’m So Grateful for YOU!

As a writer, I often feel like I’m typing into a vacuum…but you all make it worthwhile, and I’m so thankful for you!

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Being Thankful…Especially Now

The year of All the Bad Things in many ways, 2020 was still a year for gratitude!

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Word of the Week – Cornucopia

Because obviously I have to look into the history of this Thanksgiving icon!

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No More Complaining, All Gratitude!

This year, I challenged us all to give up grumbling and complaining and focus instead on gratitude and compassion. There’s even a printable journal to help you out!

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Throwback Thursday – My Unceasing Thanksgiving

Throwback Thursday – My Unceasing Thanksgiving

As we draw ever closer to Thanksgiving, my thoughts go not only to where I am this year in terms of my own attitude and state of thankfulness, but also back over where I’ve come from. Thanksgiving has always been one of my favorite holidays–I love that we have a day set aside to praise God for His faithfulness! So today and next week, on Thanksgiving itself, I’m going to revisit some of the reflections I’ve shared in Thanksgivings past. Why? Because they continue to linger in my heart and mind, and I revisit them myself regularly…so why not share?

I’m going to begin this week with last year’s reflection. This is one I think about regularly–not because of any insight of mine, but because of the insight of the author I’m quoting, which has lingered in my heart ever since I first read it. This in many ways sums up what I truly believe the purest form of thanksgiving is: quick obedience to our Lord.

My Unceasing Thanksgiving

first posted on November 25, 2021

“Why do I follow you? Because you are who you are, Lord, and because I rejoice in having been called by you. Let the swiftness of my feet in following you be my unceasing thanksgiving.”
~ Fire of Mercy, Heart of the Word

When I read those words a few weeks ago, they resonated deep in my spirit. So often we view thanksgiving as something we have to pause to do, a state of mind that we have to work to get into. When Paul tells us to give thanks always, we think of it as something tending toward the impossible–at least if we’re not staying constantly conscious of it.

But I love this perspective, and it’s one I’m dwelling on this year as I celebrate our official Thanksgiving. That sometimes, the loudest praise is doing what God has called us to do. It’s abandoning our fishing nets and following after Him. It’s pouring our offering of perfume onto His feet. It’s rushing through the busy streets of life, just seeking the hem of His garment. It’s doing the work of the Kingdom. It isn’t a big meal or reflecting on all the “things” He’s given or even the people we love. Thanksgiving is about Him.

Obedience is thanksgiving. Honoring His call on our lives is thanksgiving. Rejoicing in the One whose path we follow is thanksgiving.

Lord, I thank you. I thank you with my lips. I thank you with my words. But I also thank you with my feet–may they be ever swift in chasing after you!

~*~

Come back next week, on Thanksgiving, for a full roundup of all my Thanksgiving posts over the years!

Word of the Week – Halloween

Word of the Week – Halloween

It’s Halloween!

Whether you observe the day or decry it (or something in between), one can’t ignore the fascinating history of both the word itself and the traditions surrounding it. I’ve blogged about it before in a post that combines all my recollection as I looked into the holiday for my own family’s celebrating, but today I want to focus mostly on the word.

We’ve probably all heard that Halloween is a shortening of All Hallow’s Even or All Hallow’s Eve. Even or eve are of course, in turn, a shortening of evening. We most famously still use this, of course, on Christmas Eve, to denote the night or vigil of the sacred day itself.

But what about that Hallow? We know that word primarily from the Lord’s prayer–it means “holy” or, in this case, “ones who are holy”–saints. November 1 is All Saints Day or All Hallows Day, the day marked on the calendar for celebrating all the saints–a day so important that, in the Roman Catholic Church, it’s one of only six Holy Days of Obligation in the year. (Those are days when going to mass to remember the event is required.) Why is it given such honor? Because this is literally the day to remember all the Christians who have come before us, who are gathered now in heaven. This is a day to honor the Church as the Bride of Christ and remember each member, each cell throughout time.

In the post I link to above, I mentioned the very real spiritual warfare style traditions that sprang up as Christianity clashed with paganism in Celtic Ireland and Scotland, and those are a big part of the story. It’s also worth noting, however, that as Christianity took hold, this holy day was so important that children anticipated it as much as Christmas and went around their neighborhoods asking for donations of sweets so they could make “soul cakes” to remember the neighbors’ loved ones on All Saints Day…sometimes even dressed up as saints themselves.

As with many of our holidays, there’s a mix of the holy and the not-so-holy in today’s traditions…but no shortage of fascinating history to both the word and the day!

40 Things

40 Things

We’re somehow to the middle of August again … which means at my birthday again. Which, in turn, means time for another post reflecting on the year–on things learned, things discovered, things loved, things hated. And of course, this is a milestone year. Forty! (Cue all the “Really? You don’t look a day over thirty nine and a half!” comments, LOL.) Surely that means I have some brilliance accrued, right? 😉 Well, we’ll see, LOL. In no particular order, here are my 40 Things.

1. I Actually Love Keto

Last year in my 39 things, I mentioned that my husband and I were starting the keto diet, in the hopes that it would help some of my energy issues. Well…it did! Not only did I lose the extra 16 pounds I was carrying, my energy levels returned to normal, and I felt like me again! And there were other unexpected benefits too–for the past fifteen years, I’ve had to limit my caffeine intake or get fluttery-heart feelings (this runs in my family). But on keto, no amount of caffeine made me jittery or fluttery. I also no longer got sores in my mouth any time I drank a soda. I’m no doctor or chemist to explain this, but it was a nice side-effect! And when I went off keto and to low-carb over the summer, those jitters and sores returned, grr, as did the sluggishness. Guess who started it again? (Brace yourself for some other related taste discoveries, LOL.) Now, part of the reason I can love it is there are zero consequences for me if I slip up or cheat and fall out of ketosis for a few days. Nothing at stake, which makes it not stressful. The same is certainly not true for those doing it for medical reasons like epilepsy, which is how I was introduced to the diet.

2. A Diaversary

On September 26, 2021, we “celebrated” Rowyn’s first anniversary of his diagnosis of Type 1 Diabetes. Many in the community celebrate this day as a birthday–because while it’s not a happy diagnosis, it’s the day they could have died but didn’t. The day they were given their life back to them, just with an insulin pen in hand. When I told Rowyn about the possibility of celebrating, he gave me that “Are you insane?” look that all teen boys surely excel at, LOL, and said, “Um, NO.” So no cake here. Though I did make his favorite meal for dinner. 😉

3. A Baptism

On that same day, September 26, 2021, we had another celebration–Xoë was baptized! So even though Rowyn didn’t want to celebrate his milestone, LOL, it was a milestone day nonetheless!

4. A Dream of the Beach

Ever since forever, my husband and I have loved the beach and dream of someday owning a house in the Outer Banks. Every year when we vacation there, it hits us anew–our hearts are so happy there! The reasons are many, but the point is this: someday we want to own a house there. We’ll call it The SeaShelves. It will have books and ocean access. Our true dream would be to have a house big enough that we could invite guests to join us regularly, host retreats, and generally just extend that joy to others as a ministry. How will this happen? No clue. But it’s a dream that won’t let us go, so we’re continually offering it to the Lord.

5. We’re Walking…Yes Indeed, We’re Walking

Last September as we vacationed, one of our brainstorming walks included how to bring a bit of the joy home with us, and we realized that those walks on the beach were a key part of what we loved. Starting each day with a walk and a talk was precious! We decided to institute a morning walk in our at-home routine, and we kept it up all through the cold winter and back into the spring. It was amazing! We paused them when my husband started working from the office instead of home, but I know we both miss it and want to figure out a way to both take that walk and get him out in good time. (Photo is of a local tow path on the C&O Canal…not our daily location, but one we used last year.)

6. A Mouse! (The Computer Kind)

This may sound silly to many people, but I’ve been using a laptop for years and just using the touchpad as the mouse. I also have a Wacom tablet/stylus for design work. Well, last September my cat knocked water onto my keyboard and while we got it dried out and mostly fixed, the mouse refused to be revived. Simple solution: a wireless mouse. Obviously. But here’s the thing–my hubby found me a PURPLE one that is small and fits perfectly in my hand! LOVE!

7. Aldi’s

I’m late on this bandwagon, but I finally decided to put Aldi’s into my weekly rotation. Groceries (especially produce) are SO much cheaper there, and they have quite a selection of keto foods, included yummy, zero-net-carb bread for CHEAP! “Cheap” and “keto food” do not usually belong in the same sentence, so this has been big for us!

8. Co-Teaching Is Fun!

I’ve recorded quite a lot of classes at this point for writers, but this summer David and I decided to present a series together, and oh my gracious! Talking through things together (which we do all the time anyway) is so much more fun than just presenting my ideas alone! We recorded 8 classes that will be their own marketing series intensive, and also got to co-present a Major Morning Session at Montrose Christian Writers Conference in July. What a blessing!

9. Coffee Creamer Trial and Error

Okay, so I have always been a flavored-creamer girl. Fat Free French Vanilla was my go-to coffee creamer for years. Like, decade-and-a-half years. Pumpkin Spice was my seasonal delight. Then I decided to do keto, and the biggest hurdle for me was figuring out what to put in my coffee. My old creamers, laden with sugar as they are, were out. I tried the “zero sugar” varieties, but they still have 1 carb per tablespoon, and I use quite a few tablespoons a day, LOL. For a while, I was just using unsweetened almond milk with some sugar free syrup, and that was okay, but not creamy. Then I discovered NutPods. BLISS!! Combined with a little of that sugar free syrup, it’s not only sweet and no-carb, it’s rich and CREAMY!!! I am so happy to have discovered this!

10. The Griddler

I’ve been making a big batch of pancakes for my son every week so I can freeze them (they impact the blood sugar less after they’ve been frozen/reheated) and then making low-carb waffles for me and David. Well, my waffle iron was in need of a replacement, so I went on the hunt, and my husband found The Griddler for me. It not only has a waffle iron that will do 4 waffle squares at once (my old one only did 2), it also lays flat to have two griddle surfaces, which means I can cook 2 pancakes at once too! And a panini press, which I’ve used a couple times as well. =) All in all, I am loving The Griddler, which cuts my weekly breakfast prep time in half. Definitely worth the investment!

11. Happy Campers

My daughter has gone to a Bible camp many times; it was cancelled in 2020 because of Covid (of course) and her week was cancelled last year because of someone the week before testing positive too, but this year she got to return, for the Teen Week that she’s been looking forward to for years! Teen Week is over July 4th week, and they get to do alllll the fun stuff. Her best friend was actually working at the camp this summer, so they got to hang out too. Xoë came home with lots of fun stories and a cute pair of VW van earrings she got at Ohiopyle. What really surprised me, though, was that Rowyn wanted to go to camp this year. This boy of mine has refused up until now, but all his friends went this year, so he was like, “Sign me up!” I admit it–I was a bit nervous, what with the diabetes thing. But the wonderful camp personnel worked with me to get him carb counts on his food, and he handled everything like a champ! He did experience quite a roller coaster of blood sugars and was glad to come home and rest from that, but he had a great time too.

12. Omnipod

One of the reasons I was a little nervous about sending Rowyn to camp was because he had just the week before started using an insulin pump. !! We’d been on the list for education for a pump for a year and finally had all our training completed (there was a backup thanks to, you guessed it, pandemic protocols). He had his choice of a couple pumps but chose the only tubeless one, Omnipod. You wear it directly on your skin, and it delivers insulin to you; there’s a steady drip to take the place of the once-daily long acting (think background insulin, like our pancreases do for us), and then you program in your carbs whenever you eat with a handy little device. So much simpler than needles! I nearly teared up the first time Rowyn just grabbed a random snack when he was hungry (he often decided “it’s not worth it” on that sort of thing when it involved an injection), and he has been 100% managing it himself since he got it, thanks to needing to for camp. Loving the Podding life!

13. Same House, Different Room

After The Number of Love came out, I received a lot of emails asking me about what church I belonged to, which spurred me to write an article about it borrowing C. S. Lewis’s “different rooms in the same house” model of Christianity. Well, last autumn, after years of prayer and reading and (in my case) stubborn insistence that we just couldn’t leave our church, our family followed the call of the Spirit from our baptist church to Catholicism. Had you asked me a year or two ago if I’d ever make that move, I’d have said no. But the moment I instead said, “Okay, God, if this is where you want us, I’ll go,” unspeakable, immeasurable joy filled my soul, unlike anything I’ve ever known. The more I’ve learned about this ancient Church, the more I love. Ecumenism between Christian faiths has long been a passion, and I’m excited to be seeking that unity now from this new (or OLD, as the case may be!) room in the house.

This is something I share knowing that some will disapprove. But I have always believed that Catholicism is the foundation of Christianity. This Church is the one who canonized the Bible, who preserved the faith for thousands of years. Were there dark patches in its history? Of course! There are dark patches in all of human history. But praise God, He is bigger than our failings, and His Church, founded on Christ, lives on despite our human mistakes.

I’m continually amazed and blessed by all I’ve been learning and cannot WAIT to be confirmed and take that precious communion at the end of the month!

14. New Glasses

And now a lighter, smaller one, LOL. 😉 I finally decided, “Hey, I need new glasses!” and retired my decade-old pair that weren’t cutting it anymore. These are only for computer work, which is currently all I need, and they’ve been a big help!

15. Marco Polo

Last fall, best friend/crit partner Stephanie said, “Hey, you should get this app called Marco Polo so we can video chat with each other. It’s just like The Expanse!” (Sci-fi show we both watch and love, LOL.) Being a dutiful friend, I said, “Yeah, sure, whatever” and downloaded the app. To my complete surprise, I LOVE IT. There’s something about both seeing a hearing someone that really connects you, more than just an email or text or even a phone call. With MP, you record at your leisure, then send the video message, and the other person can watch at their leisure. I loved it so much that I’ve started a group on there for…

16. Patrons and Peers

As I reflected on the end of 2021 and looked ahead to 2022, I realized one of the things I wanted to shift was how much time I was spending on design work versus writing. I wanted to cut back to one design a week, but how? Design work has been helping to pay the bills! My husband suggested I consider starting a supporter system kinda like Patreon, only hosted on my own platform. I noodled that for a while, prayed about it, and finally decided to give it a try. In keeping with my nobility-themed writing, I decided to call it Patrons and Peers. But I didn’t just want supporters–I wanted a true community. So I invited each new member to share about themselves–their goals, their passions, their struggles–as they joined, either in Marco Polo or on an email list. To my complete joy (and a bit of surprise, I admit it), they took me up on my invitation and have opened their hearts to each other.

This amazing group of ladies, now nearly 30 strong, has been SUCH a blessing this year! Not only because they all support me, but because they have truly become a community. Friends and sisters, connecting and supporting and praying for each other, encouraging and sharing. I am humbled and overjoyed at getting to be a part of this truly amazing group!

17. Rare Sugars

Part of my keto education was to learn about rare sugars…knowledge I have since shared with quite a few people individually, so which may be useful to some of you too. 😉 I daresay we all know that sugar is bad for you and that artificial sweeteners aren’t always much better. Well there are now quite a few sugar alternatives on the market that are naturally sourced and which have zero impact on the body–no calories, no affect on blood sugar, they aren’t digested or absorbed…but they still taste sweet! These include stevia, monk fruit extract, erythritol, allulose. While on their own some of these have funny (or cooling) aftertaste, those cancel out (happily) when you mix them together, so there are now quite a few blends you can buy that behave and taste like real sugar but are zero carb, zero calorie, zero glycemic index. Yay!! My favorite granular option is All Purpose In The Raw. I love making low carb treats with these options and then eating them guilt free–I’ve found that as long as I have a keto dessert on hand, I’m very rarely tempted to cheat with a sugary version, even at parties.

18. Radiant Me

Round about April, I started looking for a program that would reintroduce some exercising beyond walking and also provide some structure as I transitioned to low carb from keto. I stumbled across Radiant Me thanks to a Facebook ad and bought the 14-Day Reset. I loved it so much I then also grabbed the Body Sculpting program. I was already at my target weight so didn’t see the loss in pounds that many in the community do, but I did see tightening of crucial inches on the waist and tummy! (And I LOVE that there’s a Facebook group to support and encourage!)

19. ADHD

Last fall, my daughter came to me and said she thought she had ADHD and needed help. She was having big problems focusing on school work, to the point that it was really upsetting her. We’d noticed a growing trend with this, and it had gotten to the point that it couldn’t be ignored any longer…made especially obvious, I think, when her little bro started 8th grade and was flying through the material it had taken her all day to do. We tried some supplements, some diet changes, and some focusing techniques but eventually sought medical help and went with a medicine that has done wonders for her. Still not without its challenges, but she no longer feels like any concentration is beyond her.

20. Poshmark

I’ve shopped on Poshmark before, here and there, when I was looking for specific things. Well, around Christmas last year I happened across a dress I adored at a local discount shop and decided to hop onto Poshmark to see what else could be found by the same brand…and I totally caught the bug. Why, I decided, should I pay high prices for new clothes when I could spent a fraction of it on something worn once? I did a full closet clean-out (will be listing things as I find time) and then replaced some things with my Poshmark finds, and it’s been so much fun!

21. A Christy Award!

I told you this was in totally random order, LOL. 😉 Last September, when I was flying to my writing retreat with the awesome Stephanie Morrill in Kansas, I turned my cellular back on after getting off the plane and was bombarded with messages congratulating me on my Christy Award nomination. Wha??? I was shocked, because I honestly never expected book 3 in a series to be nominated, but A Portrait of Loyalty had been! Okay, cool. Fast forward to November. I put on a cute little black dress, curled my hair, donned earrings for the first time in years, and kept my feet in their fuzzy socks, thank you, to sit in front of my computer for the Zoom award ceremony. Xoe was right by my side off-camera, the guys in the other room. I knew they read the opening line of the winning book, so Xoe and I refreshed ourselves on the Prologue of Portrait. We waited for my category. And then started laughing when they read the opening of my book…but from Chapter One. After a moment of “Wait–is that mine??” I accepted my first ever award for a published book.

22. The Imposters

Not long after my birthday last year, I signed the contract for my next series from Bethany House, The Imposters. It was kinda funny, because the pitch for this was totally off the cuff. I’d intended to next write a fairy tale retelling series set in Edwardian Ireland, but they’d just acquired a fairy tale retelling series set in Texas by the lovely Karen Witemyer, so literally two days before their next meeting, my editor was like, “Hey, got anything else?” Cue me going, “Uh…sure. Just a second” and scrambling to make sense of a nebulous idea I’d been toying with. They loved it! I just finished writing book one, A Beautiful Disguise, and will turn it in the day after my birthday. =) This series is about an aristocratic brother and sister who, when faced with bankruptcy from their father’s extravagant lifestyle, become private investigators, spying on the elite. But they don’t do it in normal ways, oh no. They utilize the odd skills they learned from the entertainers their father wasted all their money on–circus performers, actors, acrobats. Fun stuff!

23. Earrings

I mentioned above that I wore earrings for the first time in years last fall. Yep. I stopped wearing them in high school, got out of the habit, certainly didn’t reintroduce them with small children, and then just assumed my holes had closed up. Well, in October, Xoë decided she’d like her ears pierced for her 16th birthday, so I went through my jewelry box looking for some pairs to give her. I passed along quite a few but also rediscovered a set that matched a necklace I wore regularly and decided, “Hey, let’s try them.” To my utter surprise, they were still open! After 23 years!! How crazy is that? I still forget more often than I remember, but it’s been fun to add that touch of style back into my wardrobe…especially since it means I can wear my dangling book earrings. 😉

24. Bookish Things

Which, hey, is a great introduction to another of my big projects for the last year: turning my signed-book-and-tee-shirt shop into Bookish Things, bringing in all sorts of awesome bookish products! I had the idea while we were on vacation last September, and managed to get the new shop up and running in time for Christmas. It’s been so much fun! First, fun picking out products that tie in with my stories specifically, but also fun to discover what book-themed items are out there! (The socks have been my most popular find, hands down! Well, those and the watch pendant that ties in with An Hour Unspent.)

25. 200 Episodes!

This year my podcast reached and surpassed 200 episodes! Have you given it a listen yet? (You can check it out here.)

26. Two Guideposts Series

This year I also signed on with Guideposts to participate in TWO new series. First came the offer to join Secrets from Grandma’s Attic–one of their mystery series set in a modern day small town, where we see bits of the past through the items discovered in the main characters’ grandmother’s attic. I just turned in my first of these last month, tentatively entitled Teacups and Tiaras. It will be #13 in the series, and I’ll be writing #21 as well.

I was also invited to contribute to a new biblical fiction series they’re launching, Extraordinary Women of the Bible. I’ll be starting my first book, about Mary Magdalene, here in a week or so, and it’ll be #4 in the series. I’m excited to dive in! I’ll be writing at least one more in that series too, but I haven’t chosen my character yet. =)

27. The Amazing Pocket Calendar

Of course, balancing THREE series–my Bethany House one and these two for Guideposts–means a LOT of discipline when it comes to scheduling…which in turn required a good old-fashioned paper pocket calendar, which somehow manages to help me keep it all straight better than a digital version was able to do. I think I spent all of $4 on this at Staples, but it’s been a lifesaver!

28. WhiteCrown Publishing

One of our biggest–and most fun!–enterprises of the year was to officially announce, acquire for, and launch a new imprint of WhiteFire Publishing: WhiteCrown! This royal fiction imprint for teens and adults has us SO excited!! Every single thing so far has been just bursting with joy and fun. All the work for it feels like play! We’re launching with Hannah Currie’s new series, but we also have a duology from Melody Carlson in the works, and a timeslip from Tricia Goyer. SO EXCITED!!!!

29. Midnight Mass

Christmas has long been a season of … let’s call it “journeying” … in our house, as we strove to hit the right note between joy and fun and the sacred with our family. Honestly, we’d never quite struck the balance that made us all happy. This year, however, we finally found it! All through advent we were just so excited for this sacred season, and it culminated for us when we went to Midnight Mass. We got to welcome the Christ Child’s birth with beauty and joy, making Him the true focal point of our celebration. (Photo of this year’s mantle area. I don’t think we’ve ever decorated as early as we did this year!)

30. Hilo Chips

One of the things we did miss on keto was CHIPS! There is just something about crunchy, salty snacks that David and I always loved…but finding a low carb chip? Yeah, tricky. No potatoes, no corn, which leaves you with … well … that was the question. We’d tried Quest brand chips before and didn’t love them. Tried some others and they were more like crackers. But I finally stumbled upon Hilo, and it has been our chip salvation! They’re an almond flour chip, but thin and crispy, and the seasoning tastes GREAT! Yay for an alternative to our favorite snack!

31. Bible in a Year

It’s been a while since I’ve done a Bible-in-a-Year read, so I decided to make 2022 the year for it … in part, I admit it, because that above version was SO PRETTY that it inspired me. (The leaves are metallic foil. It’s a stunningly beautiful paperback!) This is also the Catholic version, so includes the Apocrypha. I’ve read some of those books before, but not all of them. It’s fun to explore! (The dueoterocanonical books, aka “the Apocrypha” have been preserved only in the Greek Septuigent; earlier Hebrew manuscripts have been lost. The books were included in the oldest versions of the Christian Bible, but with a note to say they couldn’t be documented quite like other canonical texts. Eventually the Jews of the early centuries AD removed them from their own sacred texts for that reason–they rejected anything not preserved in Hebrew or Aramaic–and the Christians basically put an asterisk on them, LOL. Despite what many of us think, they were not removed from Protestant Bibles until quite late…they’d been preserved with that note, basically as an appendix, for hundreds of years. It was printing costs and politics that eventually led to them being left out, but that didn’t happen until later centuries.) Anyway! I’ve been keeping up (mostly) quite well (and catching up where necessary) and am looking forward to that final quarter of readings!

32. The Entertaining House (AKA the Office)

One of our goals for the year was to be more hospitable and do some entertaining…something that doesn’t come naturally to either me or David. We took some time to pinpoint what kept us from opening our home and realized that part of it was the necessary prep of the home. We all live, school, and work here, so our small house is BURSTING, and very rarely what one would call tidy. Inviting people over doesn’t just require prepping a meal, it requires juggling where things are stored, cleaning, organizing, etc. So we did something pretty radical. We took our office (the house we used to live in) and set it up for entertaining. We bought a table that collapses to a desk but expands to a full table that seats 8, got gorgeous folding chairs that look like real dining room chairs, decorated, cleaned, painted … and the result was not only lovely, but makes us WANT to have people over! We’ve only had a few dinners so far, but they’ve all been fun. I really enjoyed giving some critical thought to what would make the space inviting and welcoming to guests, and I’m looking forward to putting it to use more in this next year too!

33. Farm Girl

This is my last keto food item, I promise, LOL. And a very recent discovery for me! I was lured in by the promise of a noodle mix that actually tasted like pasta but was low-carb … another mythical item in keto-land, like good chips. I’ve tried palm heart pasta and rice (like the rice, but the texture isn’t quite as convincing on pasta), shiratake noodles (gave me the sensation of biting into worms, so NOPE!), homemade almond flour varieties (good but so high calorie and still not like a noodle). So I purchased a noodle flour from Farm Girl with low hopes … but I was SO IMPRESSED! It actually made dough! That I could run through my pasta machine! I was so excited that I promptly ordered their amazing pizza mix too, a vanilla porridge, a couple granolas, pastry mix, and bread crumbs. Yeah, basically all their products. Haven’t tried them all yet, but every one I have tried has been AMAZING! (The noodle mix worked great for dumplings too!!)

(The company is run by a chef, who was spurred to create the products when his wife had to go low carb for medical reasons. The “farm girl” after which it’s named is his Italian immigrant grandmother, who taught him how to cook. Love their story!)

34. Jewelry from MO Judaica

In March, David and I attended the NRB (National Religious Broadcasters) Convention in Nashville. One of the best parts of the event for me was meeting Moshe, an Israel-born-and-raised jeweler currently living and working in California. He creates biblical-inspired jewelry, which is GORGEOUS. He also has the most kind, gentle spirit. The kind of man that you meet and just sense that spirit within him. My eye was caught by his Queen Esther line; I’ve added the Queen Esther necklace and the Queen Esther ring to my shop, all of which come in three colors. I also brought one home for my daughter, which is the photo above. And added another of his designs, an olive leaf and branch necklace, to my shop too. That one is cute just in photos but is GORGEOUS on, hitting just below the clavicle! (You can check out his full site here.)

35. Cats and Books

Last summer I snapped a photo of our youngest kitty, Sammy, happily snoozing on the bookshelf by my desk and posted it to Instagram with the hashtag #cats&books. To my utter surprise, I was shortly thereafter contacted by a calendar company who puts out the Cats & Books annual calendar, asking if they could purchase the rights to include that photo in their 2023 calendar! Um…sure! They’ve since sent me both a 16-month planner, in which my photo appears, and the 12-month wall calendar (no Sammy in that one). So fun!

36. Easter Vigil

Easter has always been my favorite holiday. And I thought nothing could take the place of a sunrise service in my mind as “the best thing.” But man, was I wrong! This spring we attended the Easter Vigil service too, which is held at sundown on Easter Saturday. Oh. My. Word. This is THE most beautiful church service I have ever experienced in my life! Every word is purposeful. Every reading chosen with the utmost care. There is darkness, symbolizing the kind that reigned before Him and after His death. There is candlelight, representing the light He brings with His life and resurrection, the hope of us all. There is chant, there is song, there is Scripture upon Scripture to tell the whole story of salvation. There is incense to remind us that our prayers are a sweet aroma to the Lord. And there is no question at all that this tradition has been hewn and perfected over the course of two thousand years, because it is SO gorgeous, SO moving, SO carefully constructed. I get goosebumps just thinking about it and am already eager for next Easter!

37. 28 Books and Counting

As of next month, I’ll have 28 titles in the world (Worthy of Legend makes 28)! And number 29 (Yesterday’s Tides) will be out in January, with numbers 30 (Teacups and Tiaras) and 31 (A Beautiful Disguise) already written and turned in too, with 32 also due in September.

38. 1920s style

The week that Shadowed Loyalty (my 1920s-set Chicago Mafia story) released, David and I attended “The Gatsby Gala” at a local historical house–a themed party to open this museum-house to the public for the first time. We had so much fun! And of course, it being a dress-up event, I not only got to break out my gown (which I’d gotten for a trip to NYC a few years ago), I also decided to spend a few bucks on a fun headpiece. And a fedora for David. 😉 I did my hair too, which turned out to be the crowning glory of it all, LOL, much to my surprise. (Plenty of other ladies at the party had 20s dresses and headpieces, but no one had done a curled or waved bob!) It was such fun that I also got dolled up for my Facebook Live, my Tea Party Book Club, and a signing event at a convention in Chicago that I attended the last week in July! Plenty of time to practice my 1920s style. (I totally think we need to bring it back…)

39. Afremov’s Art

Okay, so I am totally a sucker for Facebook ads. In July, one popped up for the artwork of Leonid Afremov, who had recently passed away; his family is trying to move his warehouse full of paintings and is having mega-sales on his work. I clicked through because the art was just so … joyful. Those colors! The style! I quickly fell in love, and David and I decided we would purchase a couple paintings for our anniversary and my birthday. Aren’t they just gorgeous?? The one of Paris is a textured print, but it fits so well in our “Paris” space. The other one is, well, enormous, LOL, and now in our entertaining space at the office. =)

40. Summer Evenings on the Porch

By some unspoken consent, David and I both decided to really enjoy summer this year. In years past, I admit that I’ve let the heat get the best of me and spent way more time inside than out. This year though, we’ve been making an effort to spend evenings on the porch. (Okay, so the photo is a morning shot, LOL, but it’s what I had a picture of!) We raise our umbrella, bring out cushions and blankets to soften our not-so-comfy wrought iron chairs, light citronella torches, turn on the fountain, I coat myself in bug spray, we grab a glass of something delightful to drink and perhaps a snack, and sit and read together. It’s been truly beautiful to spend that time there, watching the fireflies come out and listening to the birds.

And there’s my list! It’s funny … the previous times I’ve made these birthday lists, it was a real challenge to figure out what things I wanted to highlight. This year, I actually had more on my list than I could include! Even now, I’m thinking of other things that made this year what it was–good things and bad, tears shed and laughter shared. All in all, I’m left praising God for putting me in this family, for giving me these friends and community, for leading me to the path of faith I’m traveling. This year in a lot of ways, I discovered who I really am as I embraced His call more than ever. It hasn’t come without its bumps and tears and stress. But the joy … the joy this year has been more than I knew was possible. I’ll wrap up with one of my favorite quotes from the year:

“Why do I follow you?
Because you are who you are, Lord,
and because I rejoice in having been called by you.
Let the swiftness of my feet in following you be my unceasing thanksgiving.”
~ Fire of Mercy, Heart of the Word