Thoughtful About . . . Confidence and Humility

Giveaway here Deb Raney’s Almost Forever

Giveaway of A Stray Drop of Blood – a special Mother’s Day contest at Sunnybank Meandering includes my book and many other awesome prizes. Also, there’s a really awesome interview and giveaway to correspond with the ACFW book club this month, by the book club coordinator Nora St. Laurent. Check it out at Finding Hope Through Fiction!

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So last week I read my first not-glowing feedback on A Stray Drop of Blood. It got me thinking.

A while ago I made the comment to my best friend that I was looking forward to my first negative review because it would make me a “real” author. It would mean my book was really getting out there, into hands other than my friends and acquaintances. Now, granted, this was a deliberately optimistic take on something I was obviously NOT really looking forward to.

And now I know why I wasn’t looking forward to it. It’s not fun to realize that someone doesn’t like your book. It’s hard to separate it from people not liking you.

The optimist in me still sees the bright side, which includes that this wasn’t a full review and hasn’t yet appeared but one place. The optimist also remembers all the glowing reviews I’ve gotten, all the encouragement, and the readers who disagreed with this mediocre rating where it was rated.

It’s also a valuable lesson in both confidence and humility. We’re told, as authors, not to believe our reviews, either the good or the bad, entirely. But to take criticism constructively and always strive to be better. Can we address that thing someone complained about in our next book? Can we do better on that score?

There’s always room for improvement. No one book will be loved by all. I have to come to grips with the fact that even those in my target readership aren’t necessarily going to love it. But I can’t let that get me down. I have to take it and grow and be better.

The question is always how. And the answer is always Him. If I have any talent, it’s from God. If I have any stories, they came from Him. If anyone is touched by my books, it’s because He chose to speak to them.

Who am I to get upset because God has other ways of talking to some people? I’m just so, so grateful that He has blessed me with the commission to offer my hands, offer my words at all. Through my writing I’ve made friends, I’ve had epiphanies, I’ve grown closer to my God and my Savior. That in itself is reason enough to risk the negative.

Remember When . . . Historians Were Mindreaders?

Giveaway here Deb Raney’s Almost Forever

Giveaway of A Stray Drop of Blood – a special Mother’s Day contest at Sunnybank Meandering includes my book and many other awesome prizes. Also, there’s a really awesome interview and giveaway to correspond with the ACFW book club this month, by the book club coordinator Nora St. Laurent. Check it out at Finding Hope Through Fiction!

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It finally occurred to me why reading Herodotus’s The Histories is so much more interesting than reading a history textbook from my high school days. It reads like a novel! I mean, modern writing rules would hate it, but seriously.

The thing that makes Herodotus fun to read is that he gets into the heads of the historical figures. He not only reports the actions, he tells you why they did them. He tells us who was jealous, who was arrogant, who was vindictive, who was earnest, who was noble. And when one’s reading, one totally buys it (mostly).

But as I was writing a scene yesterday, wondering why I couldn’t get past a certain part, it struck me. Herodotus, while trustworthy enough with the facts, didn’t know some things any better than I do. So I have ever right to ignore him sometimes (Duh, I know–I’m writing fiction, right?).

I’d already decided to ignore the motivations he states when they don’t suit me. There’s a rather scandalous affair he tells us about, and the only rationale given for it is “He fell in love with her. Then he fell in love with her daughter.” Um . . . that‘s boring. And waaaaaay too simple, given the “her” and the “daughter.” So Roseanna’s gonna take a few liberties. =)

Yesterday’s realization actually came when I had to ignore an underlying image. He never physically describes this one person, but the way he writes him gave me an immediate image of a sniveling little monkey of a man. As I introduced this guy, though, my fingers got a mind of their own and gave him a strong physical appearance. The sniveling became respect. The cowardice he shows later will become good common sense and a touch of divine inspiration. And suddenly I could write the scene!

It was one of those odd moments, when I realized that the very thing that makes me like a book is also the thing that means I don’t have to follow it to a T. Freeing, neh?

Story Time . . . FINDING JEENA

Story Time . . . FINDING JEENA

Giveaway here Deb Raney’s Almost Forever

Giveaway of A Stray Drop of Blood – a special Mother’s Day contest at Sunnybank Meandering includes my book and many other awesome prizes. Also, there’s a really awesome interview and giveaway to correspond with the ACFW book club this month, by the book club coordinator Nora St. Laurent. Check it out at Finding Hope Through Fiction!

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A while back I talked about a novel I was still in the process of reading, Finding Jeena by Miralee Ferrell. Today, now that the book is released, I’m giving y’all the full review. =)

Finding Jeena
by Miralee Ferrell

Jeena Gregory had it all–the job she’d always dreamed of, a new townhouse in the right part of town, a car to make people drool, the finest clothes a fashionista businesswoman could want . . . she was heading exactly where she wanted to go. Until she wasn’t.

In a series of hard hits, some beyond her control and some her own doing, Jeena’s life spirals out of control. Everything she had worked so hard for is in jeopardy, and everything she thought she knew she has to doubt.

Jeena isn’t a character you necessarily like right away–but she’s one that you know is going to grow and whose promised dynamics keep you turning those pages. She pulls emotions out of you. Frustration, frantic hopes, sorrow, and finally a Joy from deep within when you get to glimpse with her the light at the end of her tunnel.

This isn’t a light, easy read, but for lovers of women’s fiction who value a journey from mountain to valley, this is the book for you. A story of growth, realization, and learning lessons the hard way, Finding Jeena is a deep look into the heart of one woman who knows exactly what she wants . . . until it betrays her. Miralee Ferrell delivers a beautifully written book that will invite you to gaze long into your own soul to see if there’s a bit of Jeena inside you.

Modern . . . Mothers

Giveaway here Deb Raney’s Almost Forever

Giveaway of A Stray Drop of Blood – a special Mother’s Day contest at Sunnybank Meandering includes my book and many other awesome prizes. Also, there’s a really awesome interview and giveaway to correspond with the ACFW book club this month, by the book club coordinator Nora St. Laurent. Check it out at Finding Hope Through Fiction!

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Since we’re coming off Mother’s Day and all, I figured I’d take a moment to reflect on my fictional mothers. My real mother is, quite simply, awesome. But naturally I can’t have every fictional mother reflect my flesh-and-blood Super Mom. So they run the gamut. =) Here are a few snippets from my contemporaries about the heroines’ moms.

From Yesterday’s Tides we have Serena, who ended up raising her daughter only with the help of her mother-in-law after her husband died when said daughter was 8. She’s an innkeeper who can’t understand where her daughter’s fashion sense went awry. =) A snippet:

“Why in the world did you never tell her?”

“She’d have stormed across three states to strangle him.”

Picturing the tidy blonde who always greeted him with a smile and a hug, Garret could well imagine it. She was a Southern mama, which just said it all.

[The strangling would have been well deserved, LOL.]

From Note to Self we have Josie, a.k.a. the best-selling advice columnist Mama Josie. She has five kids but only one daughter, and she and Melrose are super-close. Snippet:

Mom blinked–and boy could she pack a wallop in a blink. Melrose and her brothers always joked that if their mother still did live counseling instead of an advice column, she’d never need to open her mouth. Who needed words when they could communicate an entire lifetime of reminders in a single swoop of the eyelashes?

From Love Me Silly we have the prim and proper Catherine Wilder whose daughter calls her “Mims” just because it suits her so poorly. 😉 Snippet:

“Aaaagggghhh! That woman drives me nuts. Nuts, I tell you! Cashews, almonds, pistachios, pecans . . . . ” Heading for the kitchen, she strode away. “Tell me Willow has wine. I need wine.”

“Now Vee, you promised you wouldn’t blur your mother’s edges with alcohol anymore.”

“But they’re razor sharp.”

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Hope all you readers who are moms were given a spectacular Mother’s Day yesterday. And I hope all you readers with moms did your part in making that day spectacular for the nurturer in your life!

My Friend Deborah – Interview & Giveaway

My Friend Deborah – Interview & Giveaway

Today I’m super-excited to welcome Deb Raney to the blog to chat about her latest book, Almost Forever, first in a new series. Hope everyone enjoys getting to know her!

As usual, leave your comments below with how I can reach you for a chance to win a copy!

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About Deb

DEBORAH RANEY dreamed of writing a book since the summer she read all of Laura Ingalls Wilder’s Little House books and discovered that a little Kansas farm girl could, indeed, grow up to be a writer. After a happy twenty-year detour as a stay-at-home wife and mom, Deb began her writing career. Her first novel, A Vow to Cherish, was awarded a Silver Angel from Excellence in Media and inspired the acclaimed World Wide Pictures film of the same title. Since then, her books have won the RITA Award, the HOLT Medallion, the National Readers’ Choice Award, as well as being a two-time Christy Award finalist. Deb enjoys speaking and teaching at writers’ conferences across the country. She and her husband, artist Ken Raney, make their home in their native Kansas and love the small-town life that is the setting for many of Deb’s novels. The Raneys enjoy gardening, antiquing, art museums, movies, and traveling to visit four grown children and small grandchildren who live much too far away.

Deborah loves hearing from her readers. To e-mail her or to learn more about her books, please visit www.deborahraney.com

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About Almost Forever

Almost Forever, first in the new Hanover Falls series from
award winning, best-selling author Deborah Raney.
After five heroic firefighters die in a horrific fire, their spouses band together
to cope with the tragedy and try to make sense of their lives––
while unraveling the mystery surrounding the deadly fire.

Bryn Hennesey harbors a terrible secret. Her husband was only on duty the night of the fire because of her deceit—and he died in the line of duty. Now she’s paying a terrible price.

Garrett Edmonds has no shoulder to cry on, no one who really understands. His wife was the only female firefighter to perish in the blaze. His conscience tells him that he was supposed to protect the woman he loved, but instead she’s the one who died a hero.

Inevitably, Bryn and Garrett find themselves drawn together—and the relationship becomes more than just friendship. But Bryn’s secrets may be powerful enough to drive them apart: She may have, herself, been responsible for the fire that killed their spouses.

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What’s your latest book?

Almost Forever is the first in my new Hanover Falls. The book releases in May 2010 from Howard/Simon & Schuster.

I can’t wait to read it, knowing how great your previous books are!! What was the hardest part to write?

The scenes set at the location of the fire and in the firehouse required the most research because that is a world I was not familiar with. Fortunately my niece is married to a second-generation firefighter. They were able to help me so much with the details and research material that gave it a more authentic flavor.

Hey, now that’s handy! Family’s so helpful. =) What’s your favorite genre to write? To read?

With a couple of exceptions, I’ve always written women’s fiction. I love writing character-driven stories that deal with various social and human interest issues. One of the most fun books I ever wrote though, was Playing by Heart, which I term a romantic comedy. I’m not a funny person, but that book just came out funny. I was as surprised as the next guy at the lines that came out of my characters’ mouths.

As for reading, I have pretty eclectic tastes. Women’s fiction is probably always my first choice in reading, too, but I also love legal novels (nothing too scary!), mysteries, historical novels, even science fiction and fantasy occasionally.

What are you reading right now—and what are your favorite recent reads?

I read so much non-fiction for research that I almost always choose fiction for pleasure reading. Recent favorite reads have been Randy Singer’s By Reason of Insanity, The Help by Kathryn Stockett, and Rooms by Jim Rubart.

I’ve heard great things about all those. What would your dream office look like—and what does your REAL writing environment look like?

I wrote my first novel at the kitchen table (our ONLY table at the time, so I had to move everything off the table twice a day!) The next few were written at a makeshift desk in the corner of our bedroom, and later our living room. But when we moved to our current home almost five years ago, I got my dream office. I wouldn’t mind adding a wall of bookshelves to it someday, but it serves me very well and I feel very blessed to have such a great place to write. My desk gets a little messy when I’m in the middle of a project or on deadline, but I tend to be a neatnik so usually my office is tidy if not clean. Here’s a picture.

Jealous! *grins* Is there any one thing or reference you keep handy when writing? Anything you kept around for this particular book?

My nephew-in-law loaned me all his firefighter training manuals and they were an invaluable reference for all three books. Even though most of the book revolves around the relationships of the surviving spouses of my firefighters, for key scenes I needed specific information on the firefighting world, and these were great books to have!

I imagine so! Are there any people (family, writing group, editors) who you rely on when writing?

Oh, my goodness! There are so many people! My writing critique partner, Tammy Alexander, is wonderful and tough on me. My editors are invaluable. I often say they should share the byline on my books’ covers. My supportive husband gets huge credit. My kids are my sounding board because many times I’m writing heroes and heroines who are closer to their ages than mine! My sisters and close friends are great encouragers. I have a brainstorming group I meet with every January here in Kansas, and they are fabulous. I could go on and on. No book is written in a vacuum and I could not do what I do if I had to do it alone!

Wow, that sounds like one of the legendary “power” crit groups! You and Tamera Alexander?? Sigh. 😉 If someone were to give you $5,000 to spend on anything you wanted, what would you buy? (No saving or gifts to charity allowed!)

What a fun question! And I’m sure glad you put those stipulations on it. My dad gave each of his daughters a nice sum of money on a shopping trip once and his only stipulation was that we had to spend it on ourselves. I think he knew that we would all feel a little guilty doing that unless it was his specific wish. To answer your question, the first thing I’d do is buy a new Mac laptop with the 7-hour battery life! The rest would pay for a trip to Europe. It’s been a dream of mine for many years to spend an extended time in Europe visiting the English village where my maternal great grandparents hailed from, and writing a book set in Europe while I’m there to do the research. Now that I have a niece living in the UK with her English husband, my desire to visit has grown even stronger––plus I have a place to stay and a wonderful tour guide!

Awesome trip! And let me assure you that 7-hour battery is sweet, LOL. I have an Acer I chose for that very reason. Is there another author who has greatly influenced your writing?

My first influence was Laura Ingalls Wilder. Later Eugenia Price and Catherine Marshall became favorites––writers who managed to combine a compelling story with deep characterization. Contemporary author heroes for me are Angela Hunt, Robin Lee Hatcher, Ann Tatlock, Lisa Samson…Oh! There are so many…the list goes on and on.

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Thanks so much for visiting, Deb! Readers, you’ll want to check out her website at http://www.deborahraney.com and her blog at http://novelgarden.blogspot.com.

Her book is available from ChristianBook or CrossPurposes.

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