Thoughtful Thursdays
Musings on faith, family, & fiction
Though a novelist by trade, one of the trademarks of my books is the spiritual depth and exploration I includes as my characters work through what it really means to walk out their faith. Faith, in fact, is one of the things I like to ponder most. In these once-a-week articles, I gets thoughtful at the crossroads of faith, family, and fiction.
How to Have a Conversation: A Primer
The art of conversation is one that humanity developed at the start…and forgets regularly. So let’s take a lighthearted approach to how to talk to people without wanting to bob ’em upside the head.
Grappling
I have a hard time grappling with it when facts don’t bear out something I want to be true. I suspect I’m not alone. So what can we learn from it?
Canceled
Is the correct push-back to ‘cancel culture’ to…cancel it?
Inhuman Reactions
The people of the New Testament always expected Christ to react as a human…are we doing the same?
Why Did He Die?
He came not to call the righteous but sinners…but who does that leave out?
Let’s Check Our “But”s
If our first response to “love them” is “but…” then we have some work to do.
The Circles of Faith
Which circle of faith are you in?
Let Your Peace Return to You
I never understood “your peace will come back to you” when we shake off the dust…but this recently hit me.
What If We…?
What if instead of reviling the other side, we did this instead?
Who Do We Hurt?
We must see to the care of those around us, yes…but not at the expense of others.
Strength Vs. Power
So often when we feel helpless, we seek power…but really, what we should be seeking is strength. Let’s examine the difference.
Not for Us
When God appears, it’s never for the sake of that one person–and always because He’s calling them to help others.
Just a Few Words
All it took for Paul’s conversion were a few words from Jesus. Are our hearts as easily turned toward Him?
I Won’t Be
I won’t be the kind of person that…
Soft Start
My 2025 is getting off to a soft, slow start…but now that radiation is complete, I’m diving in for real!
Last Day of Radiation!
Here I am at my last day of radiation therapy for breast cancer!
The Church Hop
Do you visit other churches when you’re out of town?
2025 Word of the Year – Choose (and Chosen)
In 2025, I intend to focus on what I CHOOSE…not only in terms of decisions themselves, but in my reactions to circumstances.
How to Choose an Intentional Word of the Year (Repost and Updated)
Have you ever chosen an intentional Word of the Year? Here’s a how-to guide to picking the perfect one!
2024 Word of the Year Reflection – (Re)Discover
As 2024 draws to a close, it’s time for me to reflect on the Word of the Year I’d chosen and how it played out in my life: (Re)Discover.
A Super-Hero Christmas
A year ago, I never would have guessed that I’d be spending Christmas 2024 getting radiation…but here we are!
What Christmas Is (and is Not)
We all talk about the Reason for the Season. Let’s also talk about what Christmas isn’t.
So Thankful
This Thanksgiving, I am so overwhelmed with gratitude.
Who Have You Invited?
Who have you invited alongside your work?
Come, Holy Spirit
Reflections on self-image after mastectomy
The Me I See
Reflections on self-image after mastectomy
Royally Inspired Writing Contest!
An update on how I’m doing about a week after my surgery.
Post-Op Update
An update on how I’m doing about a week after my surgery.
Thoughtful Thursday – My Peace I Leave You
Original post published May 19, 2022 “Peace I leave with you,my peace I give to you.Not as the world givesdo I give it to you.Do not let your hearts be troubled;be not afraid. ~ John 14:27 What is peace? Jesus promises to leave us with it--not just any peace, but His...
Poets
When we let Jesus take full possession of our heart, He does amazing things.
Writing Retreat 2024 is Here!
When we let Jesus take full possession of our heart, He does amazing things.
Inspiring
When we let Jesus take full possession of our heart, He does amazing things.
I Have a Confession
When we let Jesus take full possession of our heart, He does amazing things.
Chemo Is DONE!
When we let Jesus take full possession of our heart, He does amazing things.
42 Things
Today I turn 42! So here are 42 things that have proven important to me in the last year.
What Is (Not) Vulnerability
When we let Jesus take full possession of our heart, He does amazing things.
My Heartkeeper
When we let Jesus take full possession of our heart, He does amazing things.
Happy Endings
I love stories with happy endings…but sometimes I need the stories with rocky middles too.
Why?
“Why?” may be one of the fundamental questions people ask…but it’s only helpful when approached in the right way.
Peace: Keeping or Making?
We’re called to be “peacemakers”…but what does that really mean?
Reaching Perfection
There’s more to falling short of–or attaining–perfection than we might think.
Halfway through Chemo!
An update on Roseanna, halfway through her scheduled chemo treatments
Faith Is a Verb
Did you know that the Greek word for “faith” isn’t just a noun…it’s a VERB?
Poor Marmalade
A post of inside jokes
Take Up Your Sword
Why did Jesus tell the disciples in Luke to take up their swords?
Pink Isn’t My Color
How do we decide what becomes part of our identities?
Update on Roseanna
My reflections, 10 days post chemo-round-1
These Bodies
Sometimes we fall into the trap of thinking are bodies are less important than our souls. But Christ defies that reasoning.
The Passover Seder
We read about the Last Supper, but until we understand what the Jewish Passover Seder was like in the time of Christ, we can’t really grasp what He was doing when He instituted communion.
Jesus and Traditions
We know that Jesus shook up and challenged a lot of “added” traditions. But did you know He fulfilled a lot of those “man-made” expectations too?