Thoughtful Thursdays

Musings on faith, family, & fiction

Musical Thoughts
What kind of music do you favor? A couple weeks ago, during one of my Tea Party Book Clubs, one of my lovely reader friends asked if I listen to a contemporary Christian music group, and I admitted that I rarely listen to modern music at all. Oh, I know a lot of the...
Time to Vacate
This weekend, my family will drive down to one of our favorite places in the world--Avon, North Carolina, part of the Outer Banks. We'll settle into the oceanfront house we've rented. We'll enjoy long walks on the beach. We'll eat out a few times. We'll bask in the...
Catholicism in My Fiction
Back in 2016, I began writing A Song Unheard. The entire inspiration for this story was the existence of the Belgian Refugee Orchestra—a group of top-tier musicians who had to flee their native Belgium when Germany seized their small country, and who fled to the UK...
43 Things
If you've been hanging out here long with me, you'll know that every year on my birthday, I've taken to writing a list of the corresponding number of "things" from the year I just completed that have really shaped me. Sometimes it's silly products I discovered....

Though a novelist by trade, one of the trademarks of my books is the spiritual depth and exploration I includes as my characters work through what it really means to walk out their faith. Faith, in fact, is one of the things I like to ponder most. In these once-a-week articles, I gets thoughtful at the crossroads of faith, family, and fiction.

Word for the Year – Overcome

Word for the Year – Overcome

I'd been praying for a word for 2017, as I usually do. Most of the time God will give me one when I ask, but there have been years when nothing has stood out. I had a feeling, as I prayed over the last few days, that this was going to be a no-word year. But then...

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Thoughtful About . . . 2016

Thoughtful About . . . 2016

It's that time of year again. The calendar says there's only one more day left in the old year. Facebook keeps trying to show me my year in review. Friends on there are all posting about hopes for 2017, fresh starts, saying farewell to the old. I've always loved to...

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Thoughtful About . . . What a Day

Thoughtful About . . . What a Day

I had planned to have something brilliant and insightful to blog about today. I intended to think about this yesterday. Instead I . . . * Took my cat to the vet and ended up leaving her there overnight. Poor kitty has an impacted bowel and needed an enema. =( * Spent...

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Thoughtful About . . . Our Voices

Thoughtful About . . . Our Voices

If this autumn has hammered anything home in the United States, it's that everyone has an opinion. Not that I didn't already know this, but seriously. I heard more opinions this election cycle than I can ever recall witnessing before. Every time we touched a toe into...

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Thoughtful About . . . God and Democracy

Thoughtful About . . . God and Democracy

Well, here we are, on the other side of the election. The results are in, the new president is declared, and some less-than-peaceful protests are under way. I have friends who are gloating, friends who are weeping, and friends (the vast majority) who say something...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Right View of God

Thoughtful About . . . The Right View of God

Our Bible studies are famous for getting off track . . . but resulting in some awesome discussions. Last night our study of Daniel led us to a conversation on why people might lose faith--why, specifically, God might put them in a situation where they end up losing...

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Thoughtful About . . . Blessings?

Thoughtful About . . . Blessings?

I'm not sure when this thought hit me--but it was in the last month or so. One of those things that has niggled and wiggled around in my head and then burst into realization during a sermon in church one week. I'd been wondering about blessings . . . and if we really...

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Thoughtful About . . . Our Stories

Thoughtful About . . . Our Stories

As a writer, I know all about picking the interesting times to write about--we leave out the boring stuff, right? Or the unimportant stuff. We certainly don't spend pages describing something that will never come up again. It's something I've noticed in biblical...

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Thoughtful About . . . For and Against

Thoughtful About . . . For and Against

I just got back from a couple days at a church conference, and the director said something in one of his presentations that resonated with something my husband and I had been discussing too. And that is this: One of the greatest perceived failings of the modern church...

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Thoughtful About . . . Faith Like a Tumbleweed

Thoughtful About . . . Faith Like a Tumbleweed

A few weeks ago, I heard an analogy about the kind of life we should live; that we should be an oak tree, solid and tall, a pillar of the community, the kind of person people respect and will miss when we're gone, etc. That we shouldn't be a tumbleweed, aimless and...

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Thoughtful About . . . When We’re Pressed

Thoughtful About . . . When We’re Pressed

Life is hard. So often we feel pressure. People are pushing us. Prodding us. Poking us. Sometimes, when circumstances are weighing heavy, we get that tight feeling in our chest, right? Or in our stomach. Stress. Overwhelm. We get tired. We get frustrated. We react....

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Thoughtful About . . . Being “Too Young”

Thoughtful About . . . Being “Too Young”

It's a busy week here in the White House. David's birthday was on Sunday (and I'd like to give a big shout-out of thanks to the Penguins for winning the Stanley Cup that day, which made a fantastic birthday present for that die-hard fan. When they won, I looked over...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Mismatched

Thoughtful About . . . The Mismatched

When I got married, I filled out a registry. A wish list. It had on it all the things one would expect--dishes and cookware, sheets and towels. All of them, sets. Matching. Off-white plates with flowers around the edges. Matching cups. A set of cutlery. Glasses that...

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Thoughtful About . . . Whatever Things Are True

Thoughtful About . . . Whatever Things Are True

I daresay we've all read Philippians 4:8-9. I know I've read it many times. I've heard it quoted. I've read bloggers and reviewers who make it their mantra . . . and occasionally I have been seriously irritated when people condemn something using this as their excuse....

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Thoughtful About . . . Each One

Thoughtful About . . . Each One

Back in the early days of my publishing career, my only books were from WhiteFire. Which is, of course, our company. This meant that in those first years, I knew of pretty much each sale. Individually. I could track my every effort to know which ones were working....

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Thoughtful About . . . Contests and Awards

Thoughtful About . . . Contests and Awards

My Monday started out pretty normal--I was editing Giver of Wonders, which made me two minutes late to get our homeschool day started. Had a load of laundry in. As soon as morning classes were done, I ran to get dressed, get the garbage down to the end of the...

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Thoughtful About . . . Indulgence and Forgiveness

Thoughtful About . . . Indulgence and Forgiveness

I got up this morning and realized it was Thursday. Time to get thoughtful. I opened my blog. Drew up a clean post. And sat. Staring. Waiting for inspiration to strike. Sometimes I know days or weeks in advance what I want to write about on Thursdays. Sometimes I even...

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Thoughtful About . . . To Each His Own

Thoughtful About . . . To Each His Own

It's no secret that there are a lot of different types of people in the world. That we all have different personalities. Different outlooks. That there introverts and extroverts and whole personality-naming-systems with letters to label each part of your personality....

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Thoughtful About . . . Lacework Lives

Thoughtful About . . . Lacework Lives

Yesterday, I was talking to my husband about loss. His grandfather recently passed away; and this was a man we saw nearly every day. We're currently living in the house he'd had built on the family property, just a short walk from the apartment we'd helped build for...

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Thoughtful About . . . Great Men of Faith

Thoughtful About . . . Great Men of Faith

What makes a hero of the faith? A Paul? A Nicholas? A George Muller? A John Lake? A Mother Theresa? What makes someone the kind of Christian that earns him a place in church history? The kind whose stories we tell each other to buoy each other up, to teach each other...

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Thoughtful About . . . When He Calls

Thoughtful About . . . When He Calls

Last weekend my husband, dad, and I went to visit a local church and speak about the missions trip they had taken in October, and of the service organization we've begun. After speaking of the trip for so long, the mike got handed to me to cover the org--though I'd...

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Thoughtful About . . . Lost Truth

Thoughtful About . . . Lost Truth

(First, I'd like to apologize for my blog being abandoned this week--we've had internet connectivity issues, and though I thought I posted, it didn't go through, apparently...so those posts will just be saved until next week, LOL.) In our homeschool Bible reading,...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Path

Thoughtful About . . . The Path

In October, my husband David and father went to Bulgaria. Their goal was the refugee camp in Harmanli, on the Turkish/Bulgarian border. Their purpose was to interview Syrian refugees and learn their story. The result is a short film called Along the Path. Where my...

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Thoughtful About . . . the Old Year, and the New

Thoughtful About . . . the Old Year, and the New

I know, I know. Every blogger in the whole blogosphere is reflecting now on the exit of 2015 and the entrance of her baby sister. But under the firm belief that reflection is good for the soul, I must join in. 😉 As I look back over 2015, I see a year full to...

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Thoughtful About . . . Finding Christmas

Thoughtful About . . . Finding Christmas

Obviously, Christmas has been on my mind. And on my television. And in my news feed. It's everywhere I look, and that's awesome and fun. But this being me, I can't just let it pass without thought. So I figured I'd share my reflections this year on the holiday...and...

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Thoughtful About . . . Inspiring Generosity

Thoughtful About . . . Inspiring Generosity

How do you inspire generosity in your kids? This is a question I'm asking myself a lot lately. Because while one of my children would give up absolutely anything to help someone else, the other is hard pressed to ever think about giving. Or want to give, even when...

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Thoughtful About . . . Offense

Thoughtful About . . . Offense

  It's officially the advent season. The time of year when decorations are everywhere you turn, where cheerful lights proclaim Christmas around the corner, where you expect smiles from your fellow man and sales in the stores and happy greetings to be upon lips....

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Thoughtful About . . . Things

Thoughtful About . . . Things

I have two shoeboxes sitting in my living room, waiting for next week when I'll drop them off at a local church, and they'll begin their long journey to children in need. Children who, so the websites say, may never have gotten a gift before. Children who have never...

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Thoughtful About . . . Active Faith

Thoughtful About . . . Active Faith

My husband came home one evening a while back with quite a story to tell. He'd met a friend of ours at a local Christian restaurant--a blatantly Christian restaurant, mind you, with a Christian name and which is decorated with nothing but Christian art. They were...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Refugee Crisis

Thoughtful About . . . The Refugee Crisis

In my circles, we hear about the refugees flooding Europe from Syria and the Middle East, driven out by ISIS, and we're horrified. We want to help. We want to learn more.  I was a bit surprised to realize that the opinion of my circle wasn't the norm (though I...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Contradiction of Freedom

Thoughtful About . . . The Contradiction of Freedom

Freedom. It's a subject being discussed quite a bit these days in hot-topic conversations . . . though sometimes I don't think people realize that is at the heart of what they're talking about. Freedom. It's the heart of the Christian faith, something Americans...

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Thoughtful About . . . Half of a Unit

Thoughtful About . . . Half of a Unit

We're surrounded by them. Couples. Siblings. Families that are super close. People we think of individually, sure, but also, always, as part of a unit. Over the weekend my husband and I went to the airport to pick up friends flying home from a mission trip. As I was...

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Thoughtful About . . . the Colors of God

Thoughtful About . . . the Colors of God

What does it mean to be made in the image of God? This is a thought that's floated to the surface of my mind several times in the last month or so. I look at all the racial tensions . . . I look at all the unrest in the world . . . I look at all the gender issues . ....

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Thoughtful About . . . In Response to Tragedy

Thoughtful About . . . In Response to Tragedy

Tragedy always strikes. Bad things always happen. Evil always sinks its claws into people and whispers in their ear, Do something about this. Make a statement. Make them see. Good people always get hurt. Broken hearts always cry out. This is tragic. And we all hate...

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Thoughtful About . . . Kids These Days

Thoughtful About . . . Kids These Days

I don't often feel the need to take on Facebook memes. Especially not ones posted by people I actually like. And whose bottom line I can agree with. But I read one yesterday that really got my blood up. It said: "Back in the old days we came home from school & did...

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Thoughtful About . . . I’m Not Called

Thoughtful About . . . I’m Not Called

I'm not called to build a wall. Just a section of it. I'm not called to change a nation. Just a family. I'm not called to right all wrongs. Just my wrongs. I'm not called to understand it all. Just to seek understanding through Him. I'm not called to single-handedly...

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Thoughtful About . . . I Am

Thoughtful About . . . I Am

I am a mom--an imperfect one, but one who tries to show her kids what she can...and who is constantly amazed by these two precious little people who latch onto my waist and declare, "Mine! You'll always be my mama!" He is my Father--a perfect one, who shows me in so...

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Thoughtful About . . . A Way to Help!

Thoughtful About . . . A Way to Help!

The potato harvest in Bulgaria ~ Food that can change lives! It's been a familiar refrain for me lately--that I don't want to be all talk, I want to do something to share my faith, take a stand, make a difference. And I know I'm not alone in this. But all too often,...

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Thoughtful About . . . Where We Stand

Thoughtful About . . . Where We Stand

It's nearly Independence Day here and America--a time to celebrate all we've fought to achieve. Freedom. Independence. The American Dream. And it's been a week, hasn't it? A week of big decisions for our country with far-reaching implications. A week where all the...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Video

I know I provided an almost-transcript of my sermon (man, that feels weird to type, LOL) from the other week, but I thought it would be fun to post the video today. As always, things changes a bit as I turned written notes into spoken words. I hope everyone is having...

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Thoughtful About . . . Vacationing with Jesus

Thoughtful About . . . Vacationing with Jesus

Last weekend I had the joy of filling for my dad in the pulpit at our church. I've done this once before, but it was many, many years ago. Like, before Rowyn was born, I think...so yeah. It's been a while, LOL. But I'd just been thinking, a day or two before he asked...

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Thoughtful About . . . Support

Thoughtful About . . . Support

This is mostly going to be an "I'm so grateful" post. =) Because sometimes, we just need to take the time for those. I saw a blog post last week that got me to thinking. It's about how artistic pursuits aren't silly, and begins with this young mom talking with another...

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Thoughtful About . . . Jealousy, Authority, and School

Thoughtful About . . . Jealousy, Authority, and School

It's going to be interesting to see if I can pull together the seemingly-unrelated thoughts flying through my head today. 😉 Stick around for the ride and see what happens, LOL. I'll start with a confession: I hate award season. Not Hollywood award season (which I...

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Thoughtful About . . . Writing and Passion

Thoughtful About . . . Writing and Passion

Passion: though its current definition involves "any strong feeling," it has its roots in pain. Passion comes straight from the Latin passio, which means, quite simply, "suffering." So our English idea of being passionate about something...it means not just something...

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Thoughtful About . . . Education

Thoughtful About . . . Education

I'm an educator. A home educator, if we're being precise. Every day at 9 o'clock my kids bounce out to the kitchen table, open their books, and say, "Come on, Mama, you're going to be late. Start reading." Every day, I read to them. We read the Bible. We read history....

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Thoughtful About . . . Taking Up Our Cross

Thoughtful About . . . Taking Up Our Cross

Then Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, “One thing you lack: Go your way, sell whatever you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, take up the cross, and follow Me.” ~ Mark 10:21 This week, I tend to look long and...

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Thoughtful About . . . A Prayer Request

Thoughtful About . . . A Prayer Request

The Black Sea coast in Bulgaria Since we began using Sonlight curriculum for our homeschooling when Xoe was in 1st grade, we've read a lot of missionary stories--and honestly, those stories are some of the best things we've read (in my opinion), even amidst all the...

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Thoughtful About . . . Wisdom and Knowledge

Thoughtful About . . . Wisdom and Knowledge

I've always known there was a distinction between wisdom and knowledge. There is, after all, a reason they're listed as two separate spiritual gifts. A reason they have two different words. And while I've long had a basic idea of that difference, I hadn't fully...

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